In addition to diverting our attention from God, infatuation can cause problems for us because it is most often founded on illusion. When infatuated with somoeone, we tend to build up that person in our imaginations as the perfect guy or girl. We think we'd be happy forever if that person would return our affections. Of course, we can only sustain our silly crush because we've substituted fantasy for all the information we lack about the person. As soon as we get to know the person's true identity and discover that our "perfect" man or woman is human like everyone else, our dreams fade and we move on to a new crush.
~ Joshua Harris, I Kissed Dating Goodbye
like i said, crushable... disposable.
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